In His Own Words
About Him
If you're looking for intelligent conversation without senseless banter I'm listening. I need good intelligent female interaction without judgement. I don't suffer fools easily.
I would like to connect with an intelligent woman who is willing to chat to me and philosophies with me.
About His Ideal Match
Intelligent, non-judgmental, curious, interesting, open minded. Did I mention intelligent. Definitely not snobbish. Positive, spontaneous. Music lover. Energetic. Kind hearted.
She will be willing to communicate with me and hopefully become my emotional friend and intellectual confidante.
What His Friends Say
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Northern Suburbs, Cape Town, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
64 | |
Star Sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Retired | |
Income: |
Wealthy |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
36 - 75 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Changes Often; Greying; Grey | ||
Eye Colour: |
Black; Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Hindu; Muslim; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Artistic / Musical / Writer; Executive / Management; Finance; Legal; Medical / Dental; Retired; Sales and Marketing; Self-employed; Teacher / Professor; Technical / Science / Engineering; Agriculture; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Quiet; Realistic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite Clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Rock |
Reading: |
I'm not keen |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Travel |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Comedy |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gambling; Gardening; Meditation; Yoga |
Sport Involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Bungee jumping; Camping; Chess; Darts; Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Martial arts; Pool; Rugby; Sky diving; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fine Dining; Greek; Italian; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at Work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time with the family |
Time Online: |
I check in once a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I like them Well Done ;) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Retirement Plans: |
Sipping margaritas on a beach |
Feelings about using Find Love Again: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |